Grow Group Questions - December 3, 2023

December 1, 2023 9:43 AM
Icebreaker:  
Share a situation in your life where you have felt God has chosen you to do something. How did you respond? Alternate question: How did you learn about the birds and the bees?
Sermon Discussion - Read Luke 1:26-38
  • Pastor Steve shared some responses from 13-year-old girls about how they would feel if an angel told them they would carry the Messiah. How do you think you would have responded as a 13-year-old? 
    • Do you think you would respond differently now?
  • Discuss the role of trust in Mary's response and in our responses to God. How does trust play a part in simple obedience?
  • God wants us to give Him a simple "yes" and trust Him with the details. Do you agree with this statement? Why?/Why not?
    • How can we cultivate trust in God's ability to work things out in our lives, especially when we can't see the complete picture?
    • Share a current situation where the “simple yes” feels impossible. Come up with a way to pray for one another about these issues. 
Going Deeper  - 
  • Mary likely faced judgment and criticism from society. What are some situations or circumstances that might cause believers today to face a similar reaction from their friends, colleagues and family members?
    • What are some practical ways we can discern whether our brothers and sisters who are making unconventional choices are choosing obedience to God or their own course?
  • Christmas is not just about a child and his mother, but about God moving toward a broken and hurting world. How does this perspective shape our understanding of God's character and His relationship with us?
  • Mary is worthy of admiration, not veneration (worship). Explore the difference between these two concepts and discuss how our understanding of biblical figures impacts our faith.
    • Does the faith tradition you were raised in lean more toward admiration of Mary or veneration? 
Prayer: 
In light of what was discussed, pray for one another that we will be a people who respond with “May it be as you have said”
Reminder for Next week: We will be in Matthew 1:18-25  - Read ahead!